To avoid having to check the Bibale website daily for new messages
there is an RSS feed that you can syndicate in your favourite feed
reader (since you have a Bibale account, you also have a Google
account, so why not try out Google Reader for that purpose!).

 Now you have another option, by going in Profile > Settings you can
choose to have a copy of the messages sent to you in Bibale forwarded
to the email address associated with your Google account.

 The messages you receive have links to the profile page of the user
who sent it to you and to the object/product the message is about (if
applicable).

 Happy spam fighting.